Do you feel like the spark has gone in your marriage?
Do you miss the tiny butterflies in your stomach you used to have? The stomach ache when you missed him? The romance, hugs and kisses?
We always say that our relationship is a priority, but keeping the spark in our love life too often ends up at the bottom of our to-do list.
We need fast and easy ways to spark a relationship. Keeping the interest, the caring and the love can get difficult after years of marriage.
Between working, keeping a clean home, cooking and sometimes raising children, romance in the relationship evaporates. No hugging, no kissing, a boring and predictable sex life, and all too often – Cconstant fighting.
Before you know it, you start fearing that your man will start to look elsewhere. Worried that he will cheat, that he already has. That your relationship is in serious danger.
The Quickest Ways to Spark Up Your Relationship
We’ve all read the same old tips and advice about ways to spark a relationship:
Schedule time for hugging, date nights, sexy lingerie, romantic homemade dinners, massages.
In other words, more work.
Really…who has time to make a gourmet romantic dinner every week? How many sexy baby dolls do I have to buy from now on? Do these things even work?
I think that the modern way of life requires a modern way to spark a relationship. Easier, faster and more effective.
Texting, my friends, is the secret key to your man’s romantic mind.
Before you laugh, think about this for a while:
Men are in love with their cell phones. Most men are absolutely addicted to their cell phone, and if you’ve tried having a conversation at the dinner table while your man is texting one of his buddies, you already know this.
Instead of nagging and trying to force him to pay attention to you, you can use texting to get to him focused on you no matter where he is or what he is doing.
Can you imagine how powerful that is?
How Texting Can Make Him SEE You
You don’t have to take my word for it. Maybe you’ve heard about Michael Fiore.
He’s been on the Rachael Ray show, in a bunch of newspapers and magazines and is an authority when it comes to showing you how to use texting to bring the passion and romance back – to your relationship.
So…why does it work?
Well…Here’s one of the ways it works:
Guys respond amazingly to visual stimuli. Unlike women, who are more emotionally complexed, men have simple needs when it comes to emotions and romance.
If you want your man to give you the attention that you deserve, you’ve got to speak his language first. This means using VISUAL language in your text.
A Powerful Example
I’ve stolen one example from Michael Fiore’s book – “Text the Romance Back” (used with permission):
“The word “imagine” is the single most powerful word you can use when you text your man. You will use the principal of anticipation and it will make him smile and plot romantic thoughts for the rest of the day.”
Your first text is this: “I can’t stop thinking about…”
Obviously he will reply with: “About what?” (Curiosity is sparked)
Your next text is: “All I can do is sit here and imagine what it’s going to be like when I see you again”.
Girls, I’ve tried this and it’s amazing. My husband admitted that from the moment he got my text he couldn’t think about anything else besides imagining what it’s going to be like to see me.
When he came home, I looked him in the eyes and asked him quietly: “Did you get my text?”
You can imagine what happened next. (I don’t kiss and tell…)
Advanced Texting Techniques
This example is of course the tip of the iceberg when it comes to using simple little text messages to drastically improve the intimacy, connection and passion in your relationship.
Michael Fiore is an expert in this texting stuff.
Do you think it will work for you too? Do you agree with me that this is the easiest way to spark a relationship? Decide for yourself after you watch it.
Rooting for ya,
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