Hi and welcome to my blog:)
I’m Lisa Penn and I’m here to share with you my personal experiences and advice, hoping to help you save your marriage or relationship.
My own marriage went through an awful crisis too and our journey towards healing has taught me some valuable lessons that I want to share with you.
I hope I get to help you, even just a little, and I wish for you a long and happy marriage…:)
A person with a brain says
Are you kidding? Being married to a physiologically abusive narcissistic man your advice is to complement him and understand him! Go back to the abusive 1950s where this rubbish belongs!
Lisa Penn says
Hi:) the post I was referring to was never about physically aggressive men. It is about men who are angry and take it out verbally on their spouses. Please don’t put words in my mouth, I would never do this with a physically violent man. I would definitely leave him and go to the police immediately.
Cheaters need to realize that what they’ve done is not a “mistake”. Calling it that allows them to remove themselves from the responsibility of having made a conscious decision to violate their marriage covenant and causing pain and discord within their family. Not to mention being responsible for the pain and discord in the family of the person they cheated with. The ownership of the affair and the fallout from it belongs to the cheater and the cheater only. When they have accepted that responsibility and show the fruits of genuine repentance, remorse and cut off all communication (even seeing their paramour visually in a work setting without communication, meaning find another job if that’s what it takes), then the work of restoration can begin.
Thank you for sharing your story. You have given me hope that healing can take place. I hope one day my husband will forgive me for my terrible mistake, and that I can forgive myself and be the best wife and partner as I can.