“Can We Talk?” In my 45 years of existence, I’ve never known a man who liked hearing this question. They all literally shrink down on their couch, hoping they are invisible or try to run for their lives with some excuse (“I forgot something important at work, I’ll be right back”) Do you wish you … Read more
What’s the first thing you wanted to do when you found out your partner has cheated? (After throwing a frying pan at him of course) The first I desperately wanted to do is to tell someone. My best friend maybe, or my sister. Anyone. I felt I couldn’t bear the weight of pain on my … Read more
Another day and another week go by, and your husband’s silent treatment continues. It all started with something ridiculous, but he won’t budge. How do you handle the silent treatment with dignity? How do you make it stop not only today but for good? Silent treatment in a marriage is more common than you think. … Read more
“I can’t remember the last time my husband actually listened to me when I talked to him. Or the last time he called me during the day. The last time he asked me how my day was, joked around with me, or bothered to tell me things about his life (before his friends).” It feels … Read more
Did you ever imagine that someday you will wake up next to a man who seems to hate you? Your husband. Who used to be so in love with you. Who used to be your best friend. Do you sometimes feel like you don’t even know who this guy is? Maybe he is just cold, … Read more